Old Tappan Manor Westwood, New Jersey

For over 35 years, The Old Tappan Manor has been Bergen County's most beloved wedding secret — and the couples who find us rarely look anywhere else.

Located in Old Tappan, NJ and serving couples from across Northern New Jersey, Rockland County, Westchester, Manhattan, and the entire Tri-State area, we have built a reputation over three decades that we care deeply about every single detail of every single wedding.

Nestled on beautifully manicured grounds, we offer something rare: an evening that is exclusively yours. One couple. One wedding. One night where every detail — from the signature cocktail station to the last dance — is designed around you. No competing events. No divided attention. Just your wedding, exactly as you imagined it.

Our newly renovated grand ballroom is breathtaking — crystal chandeliers, soaring ceilings, and fully customizable lighting for up to 350 guests. The outdoor waterfall ceremony space is storybook, making it one of the most sought-after ceremony settings in all of Northern New Jersey.

And the food? Guests are still talking about our cocktail hour and reception dinner months later. Our culinary team prepares everything fresh in our on-site kitchen — no shortcuts. outside caterers are also welcomed for special events or cuisines. We proudly specialize in menus that honor every culture and tradition: traditional American and Italian receptions, South Asian and Indian wedding menus, Latin and Hispanic celebrations, Jewish traditions, multicultural and fusion menus, and everything in between.

What really sets us apart is our team. Rich, Victor, Lauren, Joe, and the rest of our family will guide you from your first tour to the moment you leave as newlyweds — calm, attentive, and completely invested in making your day perfect.

If you are searching for a wedding venue in Bergen County or Northern New Jersey that combines timeless elegance, exceptional cuisine, and a team that treats you like family — you have found it.

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137 orangeburgh rd • Westwood, NJ • 07675

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Venue Details

Capacity (Seated / Cocktail): 350 /

For over 35 years, The Old Tappan Manor has been Bergen County's most beloved wedding secret — and the couples who find us rarely look anywhere else. Nestled on beautifully manicured grounds in Northern New Jersey, just minutes from Rockland County, Westchester, and Manhattan, we offer something rare: an evening that is exclusively yours. One couple. One wedding. One night where every detail — from the signature cocktail station to the last dance — is designed around you. Our newly renovated grand ballroom is breathtaking. Crystal chandeliers, soaring ceilings, and a fully customizable lighting system that can be set to any color, any mood, any vision you have in your mind. The outdoor waterfall ceremony space is storybook. And the food? Guests are still talking about our cocktail hour and reception dinner months later — because our culinary team prepares everything fresh in our on-site kitchen, crafting elaborate multi-station spreads and fully customizable dinners that reflect exactly who you are. outside caterers are also welcomed for special events or cuisines. Italian feasts. South Asian celebrations. Latin flavors. Jewish traditions honored with care. Multicultural weddings where two families, two cultures, and one incredible evening come together beautifully. Whatever your background, your heritage, your taste — we make it yours, and we make it unforgettable. What really sets us apart is our team. Rich, Victor, Lauren, Joe, and the rest of our family will guide you from your first tour to the moment you leave as newlyweds — calm, attentive, and completely invested in making your day perfect. They have spent decades pouring their hearts into this place, and couples feel it from the very first visit. Whether you are planning a grand ballroom celebration for 350 guests or an intimate gathering of fifty, The Old Tappan Manor gives you the setting, the cuisine, and the people to make it extraordinary.

Max Number of Simultaneous Events: 1

Outside Catering Permitted (BYO): Yes

Venue Type/Style: Banquet Hall, Ballroom, Garden

On-Site Cuisine Options: Use Your Own Caterer, Catering on site, Custom

Pricing

Minimim price for 100 guests: $ 8,000

Venue Features

  • A/V Equipped
  • Accept Credit Cards
  • Bridal Room
  • Buffet Menu Available
  • Coat Check
  • Garden
  • Gazebo
  • Guest Accomodations
  • Internet Access
  • Onsite Ceremony
  • Open Sunday
  • Outdoor Ceremony
  • Outdoor Reception
  • Outside Catering Permitted
  • Parking Lot
  • Premium Liquor
  • Prix Fixe Menu Option
  • Tables and Chairs
  • Valet Parking
  • Wheelchair
  • WiFi Access